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  • Billy Jingo
    I shave with Occam's Razor
    • Wednesday, October 2, 2013
    • 18663

    #1

    Four Women Accuse New York’s Attorney General of Physical Abuse

    Four Women Accuse New York’s Attorney General of Physical Abuse

    Eric Schneiderman has raised his profile as a voice against sexual misconduct. Now, after suing Harvey Weinstein, he faces a #MeToo reckoning of his own.



    Eric Schneiderman, New York’s attorney general, has long been a liberal Democratic champion of women’s rights, and recently he has become an outspoken figure in the #MeToo movement against sexual harassment. As New York State’s highest-ranking law-enforcement officer, Schneiderman, who is sixty-three, has used his authority to take legal action against the disgraced film mogul Harvey Weinstein, and to demand greater compensation for the victims of Weinstein’s alleged sexual crimes. Last month, when the Times and this magazine were awarded a joint Pulitzer Prize for coverage of sexual harassment, Schneiderman issued a congratulatory tweet, praising “the brave women and men who spoke up about the sexual harassment they had endured at the hands of powerful men.” Without these women, he noted, “there would not be the critical national reckoning under way.”

    Now Schneiderman is facing a reckoning of his own. As his prominence as a voice against sexual misconduct has risen, so, too, has the distress of four women with whom he has had romantic relationships or encounters. They accuse Schneiderman of having subjected them to nonconsensual physical violence. All have been reluctant to speak out, fearing reprisal. But two of the women, Michelle Manning Barish and Tanya Selvaratnam, have talked to The New Yorker on the record, because they feel that doing so could protect other women. They allege that he repeatedly hit them, often after drinking, frequently in bed and never with their consent. Manning Barish and Selvaratnam categorize the abuse he inflicted on them as “assault.” They did not report their allegations to the police at the time, but both say that they eventually sought medical attention after having been slapped hard across the ear and face, and also choked. Selvaratnam says that Schneiderman warned her he could have her followed and her phones tapped, and both say that he threatened to kill them if they broke up with him. (Schneiderman’s spokesperson said that he “never made any of these threats.”)

    A third former romantic partner of Schneiderman’s told Manning Barish and Selvaratnam that he also repeatedly subjected her to nonconsensual physical violence, but she told them that she is too frightened of him to come forward. (The New Yorker has independently vetted the accounts that they gave of her allegations.) A fourth woman, an attorney who has held prominent positions in the New York legal community, says that Schneiderman made an advance toward her; when she rebuffed him, he slapped her across the face with such force that it left a mark that lingered the next day. She recalls screaming in surprise and pain, and beginning to cry, and says that she felt frightened. She has asked to remain unidentified, but shared a photograph of the injury with The New Yorker.

    In a statement, Schneiderman said, “In the privacy of intimate relationships, I have engaged in role-playing and other consensual sexual activity. I have not assaulted anyone. I have never engaged in nonconsensual sex, which is a line I would not cross.”


    Manning Barish was romantically involved with Schneiderman from the summer of 2013 until New Year’s Day in 2015. Selvaratnam was with him from the summer of 2016 until the fall of 2017. Both are articulate, progressive Democratic feminists in their forties who live in Manhattan. They work and socialize in different circles, and although they have become aware of each other’s stories, they have only a few overlapping acquaintances; to this day, they have never spoken to each other. Over the past year, both watched with admiration as other women spoke out about sexual misconduct. But, as Schneiderman used the authority of his office to assume a major role in the #MeToo movement, their anguish and anger grew.
    “One day, when it's safe, when there's no personal downside to calling a thing what it is, when it's too late to hold anyone accountable, everyone will have always been against this.”

    ~ Omar El Akkad
    ​
  • Gingersnap
    Resident stylistic consultant
    • Tuesday, October 1, 2013
    • 24058

    #2
    It's a pretty damning exposé if true.
    "Alexa, slaughter the fatted calf."

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    • Norm dePlume
      Err foil
      • Tuesday, October 22, 2013
      • 14904

      #3
      Well, that was quick.

      NY attorney general resigns after claims of physical abuse

      I think he might get prosecuted, too.
      Enjoy.

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      • Newman
        Behind the Iron Curtain
        • Friday, November 1, 2013
        • 25814

        #4
        I thought this was pretty interesting as a footnote:

        Trump Predicted The Fall Of New York AG In 2013: ‘Wait And See’
        efore he even announced his intent to seek the Republican presidential nomination, Donald Trump predicted the downfall of New York Attorney General Eric Schneiderman all the way back in 2013.
        The reporter, Virginia Kruter, points to a tweet from 2013:
        :
        Weiner is gone, Spitzer is gone - next will be lightweight A.G. Eric Schneiderman. Is he a crook? Wait and see, worse than Spitzer or Weiner
        Kruter:
        Comparing Schneiderman to disgraced former Democratic congressman Anthony Weiner and former Democratic New York Governor Eliot Spitzer, both of whom resigned from their respective positions after sex scandals, Trump claimed that Schneiderman was worse than both of them.
        So Trump was confident enough in the scuttlebutt around to lob this into the twitterverse. Sort of a Harvey Weinstein situation.
        • "I'm a hell of a lot smarter than most of you guys." — Joe Biden, at Jesse Jackson's funeral, March 2026.​
        • "That's all I do in my life. I make deals. I'm really good at it." — President Donald Trump, Oct. 13, 2025.
        • “Inside every progressive is a totalitarian screaming to get out,” — David Horowitz.
        • "We [Democrats] are all willing to work with anyone who is serious about doing the work of censoring the American people, and advancing progress."​ — Ayanna Pressley, explaining progressives.
        • ​​"Florida is where Woke goes to die." — Ron DeSantis.
        • "No one is above the law, and everyone has the right to a trial to prove innocence." — Nancy Pelosi, explaining Lawfare.
        • “Those who would give up essential Liberty, to purchase a little temporary Safety, deserve neither Liberty nor Safety”​— Ben Franklin, who got it right.
        • "The way I see it, there's always, c'mon, there's always money. It's there." — Elizabeth Warren, explaining socialism.
        • "The interesting thing about the Green New Deal is it wasn't originally a climate thing at all.... We really think of it as a how-do-you-change-the-entire-economy thing." — Saikat Chakrabarti, then AOC's Chief of Staff.

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        • Norm dePlume
          Err foil
          • Tuesday, October 22, 2013
          • 14904

          #5
          Originally posted by Newman View Post
          So Trump was confident enough in the scuttlebutt around to lob this into the twitterverse.
          And he's usually so careful and responsible and understated with his tweets.
          Last edited by Norm dePlume; Monday, May 7, 2018, 8:56 PM.
          Enjoy.

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          • Billy Jingo
            I shave with Occam's Razor
            • Wednesday, October 2, 2013
            • 18663

            #6
            Really? Almost five years ago?

            Wow. I think he has had people working for the White House under him that didn’t last as long as it took Trump to type that tweet.
            “One day, when it's safe, when there's no personal downside to calling a thing what it is, when it's too late to hold anyone accountable, everyone will have always been against this.”

            ~ Omar El Akkad
            ​

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            • Gingersnap
              Resident stylistic consultant
              • Tuesday, October 1, 2013
              • 24058

              #7
              This seems to be another case of the 'open secret' which we are seeing a lot of at the moment.
              "Alexa, slaughter the fatted calf."

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              • Newman
                Behind the Iron Curtain
                • Friday, November 1, 2013
                • 25814

                #8
                I'm assuming the tweet is genuine, of course, and was in fact generated in 2013.
                • "I'm a hell of a lot smarter than most of you guys." — Joe Biden, at Jesse Jackson's funeral, March 2026.​
                • "That's all I do in my life. I make deals. I'm really good at it." — President Donald Trump, Oct. 13, 2025.
                • “Inside every progressive is a totalitarian screaming to get out,” — David Horowitz.
                • "We [Democrats] are all willing to work with anyone who is serious about doing the work of censoring the American people, and advancing progress."​ — Ayanna Pressley, explaining progressives.
                • ​​"Florida is where Woke goes to die." — Ron DeSantis.
                • "No one is above the law, and everyone has the right to a trial to prove innocence." — Nancy Pelosi, explaining Lawfare.
                • “Those who would give up essential Liberty, to purchase a little temporary Safety, deserve neither Liberty nor Safety”​— Ben Franklin, who got it right.
                • "The way I see it, there's always, c'mon, there's always money. It's there." — Elizabeth Warren, explaining socialism.
                • "The interesting thing about the Green New Deal is it wasn't originally a climate thing at all.... We really think of it as a how-do-you-change-the-entire-economy thing." — Saikat Chakrabarti, then AOC's Chief of Staff.

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                • phillygirl
                  Not superior, just kind
                  • Wednesday, October 2, 2013
                  • 19840

                  #9
                  It is a pretty damning article, indeed.
                  Not where I breathe, but where I love, I live...
                  Robert Southwell, S.J.

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                  • Novaheart
                    Guardian of civilization
                    • Tuesday, October 1, 2013
                    • 6070

                    #10
                    "Those ugly whores are lying about me again."
                    The year's at the spring
                    And day's at the morn;
                    Morning's at seven;
                    The hill-side's dew-pearled;
                    The lark's on the wing;
                    The snail's on the thorn:
                    God's in his heaven—
                    All's right with the world!

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                    • Adam
                      The way to a woman's heart is through her taste buds.
                      • Tuesday, October 1, 2013
                      • 16885

                      #11
                      .... worse than Spitzer or Weiner.
                      After reading the article, I have to agree.
                      It's been ten years since that lonely day I left you
                      In the morning rain, smoking gun in hand
                      Ten lonely years but how my heart, it still remembers
                      Pray for me, momma, I'm a gypsy now

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                      • Newman
                        Behind the Iron Curtain
                        • Friday, November 1, 2013
                        • 25814

                        #12
                        Originally posted by Adam View Post
                        After reading the article, I have to agree.
                        Kimberly Guilfoyle on the FOX News show The Five was confident in saying there is more to come; more victims and more detail, none helping Schneiderman.

                        It's sad to contemplate the colleagues and family who counseled these victims to keep quiet, even as some of them needed to visit the hospital for physical injuries.

                        I'd like to think things are changing on that score, but I'm probably wrong.
                        • "I'm a hell of a lot smarter than most of you guys." — Joe Biden, at Jesse Jackson's funeral, March 2026.​
                        • "That's all I do in my life. I make deals. I'm really good at it." — President Donald Trump, Oct. 13, 2025.
                        • “Inside every progressive is a totalitarian screaming to get out,” — David Horowitz.
                        • "We [Democrats] are all willing to work with anyone who is serious about doing the work of censoring the American people, and advancing progress."​ — Ayanna Pressley, explaining progressives.
                        • ​​"Florida is where Woke goes to die." — Ron DeSantis.
                        • "No one is above the law, and everyone has the right to a trial to prove innocence." — Nancy Pelosi, explaining Lawfare.
                        • “Those who would give up essential Liberty, to purchase a little temporary Safety, deserve neither Liberty nor Safety”​— Ben Franklin, who got it right.
                        • "The way I see it, there's always, c'mon, there's always money. It's there." — Elizabeth Warren, explaining socialism.
                        • "The interesting thing about the Green New Deal is it wasn't originally a climate thing at all.... We really think of it as a how-do-you-change-the-entire-economy thing." — Saikat Chakrabarti, then AOC's Chief of Staff.

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                        • Lady Marva
                          Senior Member
                          • Wednesday, June 17, 2015
                          • 13321

                          #13
                          Originally posted by Newman View Post
                          I'd like to think things are changing on that score, but I'm probably wrong.
                          No. you're probably right. What sane man will ever touch - or even speak to- a woman again? It could be said................................women aren't doing themselves any favors.....................

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                          • Newman
                            Behind the Iron Curtain
                            • Friday, November 1, 2013
                            • 25814

                            #14
                            Originally posted by Lady Marva View Post
                            No. you're probably right. What sane man will ever touch - or even speak to- a woman again? It could be said................................women aren't doing themselves any favors.....................
                            I'm not sure we're talking about the same thing. I was hoping people would be less inclined to advise victims to hide the damage, not report the abuse.

                            But the "playing field" is so tilted I understand the reluctance. To report abuse in such a situation you'd have to have just about absolute confidence in the agencies to whom you'd make the report.

                            A hint of corruption will mean those victims will never walk through the door. So you take a place like Broward County in Florida, with the fathead sheriff and the cowardly officers: A lot of crime like this will get hidden in the drawer labeled "Why Bother?"
                            • "I'm a hell of a lot smarter than most of you guys." — Joe Biden, at Jesse Jackson's funeral, March 2026.​
                            • "That's all I do in my life. I make deals. I'm really good at it." — President Donald Trump, Oct. 13, 2025.
                            • “Inside every progressive is a totalitarian screaming to get out,” — David Horowitz.
                            • "We [Democrats] are all willing to work with anyone who is serious about doing the work of censoring the American people, and advancing progress."​ — Ayanna Pressley, explaining progressives.
                            • ​​"Florida is where Woke goes to die." — Ron DeSantis.
                            • "No one is above the law, and everyone has the right to a trial to prove innocence." — Nancy Pelosi, explaining Lawfare.
                            • “Those who would give up essential Liberty, to purchase a little temporary Safety, deserve neither Liberty nor Safety”​— Ben Franklin, who got it right.
                            • "The way I see it, there's always, c'mon, there's always money. It's there." — Elizabeth Warren, explaining socialism.
                            • "The interesting thing about the Green New Deal is it wasn't originally a climate thing at all.... We really think of it as a how-do-you-change-the-entire-economy thing." — Saikat Chakrabarti, then AOC's Chief of Staff.

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                            • Gingersnap
                              Resident stylistic consultant
                              • Tuesday, October 1, 2013
                              • 24058

                              #15
                              Originally posted by Newman View Post
                              Kimberly Guilfoyle on the FOX News show The Five was confident in saying there is more to come; more victims and more detail, none helping Schneiderman.

                              It's sad to contemplate the colleagues and family who counseled these victims to keep quiet, even as some of them needed to visit the hospital for physical injuries.

                              I'd like to think things are changing on that score, but I'm probably wrong.
                              I'm not sure it can change more than it has.

                              I would never tolerate any abuse and have successfully (and hilariously) defeated it but I had no skin in that game. I never fell in love with an abusive man and I never had my income/status tied to a relationship outside of marriage.

                              A lot of women make a deal: I get X in status, fun, material goods, and I'll tolerate Y in bad behavior.

                              Before we all go ballistic, let's look at it. It's a deal. A bad deal in my view but one women have been making it for thousands of years for various reasons. Sometimes, those reasons work out spectacularly but often they don't and those reasons are even less relevant now than they were 30 years ago but it still happens routinely all across socio-economic levels.

                              Why is that?

                              Well, I don't know.

                              I'm not sure anybody does. It's not like highly-educated women with elite careers need abusive men to buy them cereal and yoga pants. Why do they stay?

                              The answer isn't purely economic. It's not feminist. It isn't down to power structures for these women.
                              "Alexa, slaughter the fatted calf."

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