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  • Frostbit
    But only once
    • Wednesday, October 2, 2013
    • 22330

    #1

    Cancer - Here we go again

    Way way back probably 30 years ago Joyce had a breast biopsy for a "lump". The pathology report was Lobular Hyperplasia bonding on carcinoma in situ. Essential abnormal cells that would become a cancer but all were removed with the biopsy/mini lumpectomy. She was told she had a 100% chance of developing breast cancer sometime i her life if she lives past 50. She's had close annual surveillance for decades now. The last few years she's gotten a reoccurrence verified by needle biopsy of Lobular Hyperplasia.

    Ten years ago, as you all know, she developed Diffuse Large B-Cell Lymphoma, under went 6 rounds of R-Chop Chemo and kicked it's ass only to find out on the five year pet scan she also has Follicular Lymphoma which is incurable but so slow growing cancer you ignore it.

    Now the Lobular Hyperplasia has progressed to Ductal Carcinoma, or for layman terms, breast cancer.

    Appointment is Tuesday for a game plan. Before this years mammo, then MRI, then needle biopsy she said. "I should just get these things loped off. I'm tired of this game every year".

    Those of you that know us also know we don't roll with pitty. Send some prayers, thoughts, or sacrifice a chicken if you wish. Another adventure is about to begin.
    If it pays, it stays
  • phillygirl
    Not superior, just kind
    • Wednesday, October 2, 2013
    • 19840

    #2
    Well....f$!%! Beast mode, the two of you! I know Joyce will get after this and this too shall pass. Still sorry to hear it. You guys know where to find me.
    Not where I breathe, but where I love, I live...
    Robert Southwell, S.J.

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    • gary m
      Reprobate
      • Wednesday, October 2, 2013
      • 8016

      #3
      Obviously sorry to hear that after all you and Joyce have gone through in the last decade, but we also know that is the way life goes.
      One thing to take comfort in is that if anyone can fight this and win, it is Joyce.
      Even Chuck Norris wouldn't mess with her.
      We are so fucked.

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      • Celeste Chalfonte
        apostate
        • Saturday, October 5, 2013
        • 27897

        #4
        Please give her a big encouraging hug from HRH and me. We're holding pictures of that healthy, ass-kicking woman in our hearts and rooting for her to beat this one, too. If there's anything I can do, you've got my number.
        "Since the historic ruling, the Lovings have become icons for equality. Mildred released a statement on the 40th anniversary of the ruling in 2007: 'I am proud that Richard’s and my name is on a court case that can help reinforce the love, the commitment, the fairness, and the family that so many people, Black or white, young or old, gay or straight, seek in life. I support the freedom to marry for all. That’s what Loving, and loving, are all about.'." - Mildred Loving (Loving v. Virginia)

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        • Frostbit
          But only once
          • Wednesday, October 2, 2013
          • 22330

          #5
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          If it pays, it stays

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          • Michele
            Senior Member
            • Wednesday, October 2, 2013
            • 13964

            #6
            Well, darn. You both have been such a wealth of medical information and encouragement for me and for B that I'd like to return the favor...but I'm also feeling so inadequate. I know that Joyce has the strength to get through this and beat it. Still, she has a right to also be weary of yet, one more thing. I will keep an intentional prayer for her. I wish she lived closer. I'd get Celeste and Philly and we could take her away for a weekend somewhere.

            Hang in there and please hug each other for me.
            May we raise children who love the unloved things - the dandelion, the worm, the spiderlings.
            Children who sense the rose needs the thorn and run into rainswept days the same way they turn towards the sun...
            And when they're grown and someone has to speak for those who have no voice,
            may they draw upon that wilder bond, those days of tending tender things and be the one.

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            • phillygirl
              Not superior, just kind
              • Wednesday, October 2, 2013
              • 19840

              #7
              Originally posted by Michele View Post
              Well, darn. You both have been such a wealth of medical information and encouragement for me and for B that I'd like to return the favor...but I'm also feeling so inadequate. I know that Joyce has the strength to get through this and beat it. Still, she has a right to also be weary of yet, one more thing. I will keep an intentional prayer for her. I wish she lived closer. I'd get Celeste and Philly and we could take her away for a weekend somewhere.

              Hang in there and please hug each other for me.
              Maybe we’ll figure out a virtual girls weekend for her!
              Not where I breathe, but where I love, I live...
              Robert Southwell, S.J.

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              • Lady Marva
                Senior Member
                • Wednesday, June 17, 2015
                • 13321

                #8
                Bummer! Good luck!
                But, n the immortal words of a doctor, if you have to have a cancer, BC is a good one because its slow growing. Usually.

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                • Frostbit
                  But only once
                  • Wednesday, October 2, 2013
                  • 22330

                  #9
                  Originally posted by Michele View Post
                  I'd get Celeste and Philly and we could take her away for a weekend somewhere.
                  She's got too much work to do.

                  We dropped six birch for a local old-timer today.
                  If it pays, it stays

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                  • Newman
                    Behind the Iron Curtain
                    • Friday, November 1, 2013
                    • 25814

                    #10
                    Originally posted by Frostbit View Post
                    We dropped six birch for a local old-timer today.
                    It took me a bit to figure out what the hell you meant by this. Is "birch" a drink in Alaska? Slang for cash? Not many birch in these parts.

                    This I got, though:

                    Originally posted by Frostbit View Post
                    Send some prayers, thoughts, or sacrifice a chicken if you wish. Another adventure is about to begin.
                    On the way.

                    I haven't started with a live chicken for dinner in over half a century, but we can do a little ex post facto repurposing for some Perdue tomorrow.
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                    • Frostbit
                      But only once
                      • Wednesday, October 2, 2013
                      • 22330

                      #11
                      Birch

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                      • 80zephyr
                        Senior Member
                        • Saturday, January 3, 2015
                        • 19074

                        #12
                        Damn cancer. Best of luck to her, and I'll keep her in my prayers.

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                        • Frostbit
                          But only once
                          • Wednesday, October 2, 2013
                          • 22330

                          #13
                          We appreciate the kind thoughts. Having had the pleasure of telling others about a potentially deadly diagnosis with the DLBCL the years ago we know how differently individuals deal with the news. Some have difficulty with it. Some want to know why it doesn't bother us. Well, it does bother us but not enough to give a shit. We have always lived hard and will continue to do so.
                          If it pays, it stays

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                          • Newman
                            Behind the Iron Curtain
                            • Friday, November 1, 2013
                            • 25814

                            #14
                            Originally posted by Frostbit View Post
                            We appreciate the kind thoughts. Having had the pleasure of telling others about a potentially deadly diagnosis with the DLBCL the years ago we know how differently individuals deal with the news. Some have difficulty with it. Some want to know why it doesn't bother us. Well, it does bother us but not enough to give a shit. We have always lived hard and will continue to do so.
                            Rush Limbaugh was thoughtful about that stuff in his last years. I'm not comparing his situation to yours, or any others I know who are engaged with this particular enemy.

                            His perspective was that we all are headed for the same door, but he is privileged to know when and what will be his vehicle. That probably takes a stiffer upper lip than I have, though if I can still grow a moustache there's hope for more. You're not in his position either, but you've got the temperament for battle.

                            Godspeed.


                            • "I'm a hell of a lot smarter than most of you guys." — Joe Biden, at Jesse Jackson's funeral, March 2026.​
                            • "That's all I do in my life. I make deals. I'm really good at it." — President Donald Trump, Oct. 13, 2025.
                            • “Inside every progressive is a totalitarian screaming to get out,” — David Horowitz.
                            • "We [Democrats] are all willing to work with anyone who is serious about doing the work of censoring the American people, and advancing progress."​ — Ayanna Pressley, explaining progressives.
                            • ​​"Florida is where Woke goes to die." — Ron DeSantis.
                            • "No one is above the law, and everyone has the right to a trial to prove innocence." — Nancy Pelosi, explaining Lawfare.
                            • “Those who would give up essential Liberty, to purchase a little temporary Safety, deserve neither Liberty nor Safety”​— Ben Franklin, who got it right.
                            • "The way I see it, there's always, c'mon, there's always money. It's there." — Elizabeth Warren, explaining socialism.
                            • "The interesting thing about the Green New Deal is it wasn't originally a climate thing at all.... We really think of it as a how-do-you-change-the-entire-economy thing." — Saikat Chakrabarti, then AOC's Chief of Staff.

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                            • Frostbit
                              But only once
                              • Wednesday, October 2, 2013
                              • 22330

                              #15
                              Look worried

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                              If it pays, it stays

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